E"art"hy - everything positive

Celebrating Independence ? Are we really the independent ones.. Dependency is a part of our culture and economy however we still consider ourselves to be Independent. Independence from what exactly, is the question? British rule? OOO..well we still are dependent on the social blockage of - Girls being girly and if not its a bad progeny of the parents Blue collars white collars job We live in a country where almost the entire youth is working for someone Yet tags of IT and BPO - is enough to build ur social reputation Eltie jobs - though hard to find but just name it ornamentaly Along with the Government job- who stops u then? This is what the 68th independence has given us... A country where girls are facing n number of issues daily While these are the ones who earns you name and fame as well Time and again- girls have faced it I face it today again- everywhere the same blockage I might sound like a feminist, though I m not But I would say- i definately m not i...

What exactly do we possess - apart from our own emotions? Only cause the emotions involves someone else do we possess the person. Are our emotions responsible to be answered by the other person? What if the answer doesnot match our expectations. We stop and say I am going to stop expecting from you. Its not possible to be in someone elses position and feel what the other person feels. But isnt it possible to just be there with the person. Flowing down  in a journey of knowing each other do we actually put lot of limitations on each other I donot know how to overcome this boundary of expectations Well I guess we all can rectify others- It only gets tougher when we need to rectify oneself. I realised we dont possess anyone. Thereby, our emotions should be less connected to someone elses behaviour Tried to experiment on self I would say not that tough - just constantly play a record in mind "you dont possess anyone" Smiling away all the time...

The base of all- the Gospel truth The easiest thing on earth is to open up to a stranger As days passes u feel u can give in more of u to this stranger As weeks passes and the stranger listens to you gives you a venting zone in him We feel  - we are at our comfort zone The stranger then remains no longer a stranger he can hurt you as u have exposed urself to him.. By the time we realise it we already have that unknown bonding of trust Trust - Gospel truth The moment the trust between u and me vanishes The US factor flies away and a seperate U and a seperate ME falls apart Your trust in me - gave me wings to fly and see the unseen from the top When the trust  flew away my wings were snatched Your trust in me - made me feel good about myself, Cant show u how bad i feel of myself when i miss that trust Your trust made me feel  I can stand again and run again Now when its gone i feel like my limbs re...

Lingering around in unknown roads Sometimes burnt in the heat of Sun Sometimes drenched in calmness of the moon light Only my shadow follows me Only my heart knows my wounds Only my mind encourages to take the next step. This walk is like an illusion to touch the sky I know the fact its an illusion Still  I walk, smilingly .................. boldly. I have walked with you, I have walked with her I have walked with him, I have walked with them. Chanting alone a rhyme - its ok!!!- no matter what - its ok Give me some more time-I will still follow this mirage of perfect life Why does it need to be so beautifully complicated Its like a dream within a dream Sometimes beautiful and sometimes dreadful. I started by crying and  kicking out of my my moms womb I crawled for sometime and gained strength to stand Then i trembled and toddled fondly sometime Then i walked  as intially i was amazed Now i am in a phase whereI am running I know the next ph...

Life changes every minute. As a small seed grows into a tree We humans grow emotionally - attached or detached Attachment enriches the relation Detachment does it kill the relation the love? Detachment - also means u love that being and you are happy to see it happy and safe Parting is said to be the worst thing ever happening Really is it!!! Parting is bad when it stops your life Parting is bad when it hampers your growth as a person Parting is bad when you stop taking lessons Parting is bad when u kill more then one soul with your decision Scheduling life and each phase- does it work out?? Are we happy with that all scheduled things. Why are we such beings who try to schedule everything Is it so tough to live free just the way i wish I recently realised- all words of soul mates and understanding are so unrealistic God is Great- so each individual is unic with his thought process No 2 souls on earth has the same feeling never So, what do u do- part away? I gue...

We all need that extra bit of pampering Sometimes that from Mom with that tight hug from her -as we are a part of her Sometimes from Father that patting- to understand we are his pride Sometimes a huge smile from your siblings - which says I support u just do it Sometimes a good counselling from your bestie- I know u also need a fall back and i am there Sometimes a very understanding gesture from that someone special- which means I can count on him no matter what!!! :) Sometimes a unknown smile from a stranger soothes all that need A boost from a friend covers up all the need of a sibling A power hug from a coleauge makes your day A smile from someone you like makes a lot of difference We all tend to run after the unattainable Something which is not there is aways more beautiful amd object to be missed Sometimes in the craze of that unattainable we loose the charm of the present Many a times we forget to appreciate what we have Most of the times we donot even se...

Easy to say though- Live life as it comes to you Life comes down hard on you - no matter how good the situation it might be We tend to always see the better side, try to see the worse ends too U love someone, he is not with you- u r unhappy- Very bad you both have ended up unhappily together- worse "Look at the brither side" Trust me in the big dark sky above your head, somewhere there is a star only shinning for you Lonliness doesnot kill us- its we who make our feeling secluded and kill ourself Love life for what it is to you tough very tough- ask me at times what do i want to do, when i loose my mind "i just wanna a die'- my reply stereotype Trust me i love myself too much so i cant kill myself , i dont think of anyone i am only concerned about myself Indeed i would say we all are. Faith - we hardly have that on ourself , how do we expect someone else to trust us Life  live it everyday as it comes you cant change it you cant change anyone aro...