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Parting

Life changes every minute.
As a small seed grows into a tree
We humans grow emotionally - attached or detached
Attachment enriches the relation
Detachment does it kill the relation the love?
Detachment - also means u love that being and you are happy to see it happy and safe

Parting is said to be the worst thing ever happening
Really is it!!!
Parting is bad when it stops your life
Parting is bad when it hampers your growth as a person
Parting is bad when you stop taking lessons
Parting is bad when u kill more then one soul with your decision

Scheduling life and each phase- does it work out??
Are we happy with that all scheduled things.
Why are we such beings who try to schedule everything
Is it so tough to live free just the way i wish
I recently realised- all words of soul mates and understanding are so unrealistic
God is Great- so each individual is unic with his thought process
No 2 souls on earth has the same feeling never
So, what do u do- part away?

I guess we all have parted once in our life from that one most precious thing
Did it help- did you overcome the differences .
I lost many- my partings made me grow.
The best thing i learned from my partings-
Give it your best shot,
When it doesnot work out - understand you are not enough .
Move on.

I will keep all those i parted alive in me- locked in some part of my heart.
May be as a pain- but let that be the gift of our relation.
Thats mine and only mine- I will preserve it always.
I will keep the word i have given to myslef- " not to share it with u",
I dont have any return gift for u either,
Cause , i know you have already paid the price for my gift.
Well dont repent on loosing me cause i dont.
In loosing each other we went on loosing many other -
special realtionships and incidents .
I repent loosing those moments
I repent loosing those connections-
I repent loosing time
I repent loosing my innocence.
I repent loosing my faith in myself-
cause parting made me feel  I wasnt enough.

I will revive again cause life is ever changing.
The cold winter will end.
The Springs will bring in new hope of life
I will live again someday
I will deal with myself  more cautiosly next time.
I will make sure i give without looking forward of any returns.
I will trust again sometime when its worthwhile.
I hope someone will make me feel beautiful again
I know someone will trust me with all he has
I hope i will  be the bigger part of someones world
I know although i am limping today
I will meet that someone who will help me to
stand staright  and waklk on my own
I will meet someone who will make me feel - i can trust myself
I m hopefull to see a brighter part as i grow with all those parting relations
hopefully some relations will make me repent less of all that i lost.

Lost things cant be replaced.
New dreams can be dreamt- belive in change within you
Change is the only thing happening as one of my friend says
accept this change gracefully.
Grow the change within yourself.
Embrace the fact we learn and grow to be better to others.
As the old book saying goes-
All you give - is all that comes in return.
Untill you open your arms to give away, you cant recieve with folded hands.

Still the heart feels for all that lost- as the past was always glourious
no matter how bad it was

I promise to rebuild a good present
As my hope says- "when all is gone, the future still remains"
we will grow together from a toddler to a traveller
Will have a gooud journey together

So - though i have given away a lot
I hope i will collect lot more beautiful flowers from the wild garden of life.

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