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Possession

What exactly do we possess - apart from our own emotions?
Only cause the emotions involves someone else do we possess the person.

Are our emotions responsible to be answered by the other person?
What if the answer doesnot match our expectations.
We stop and say I am going to stop expecting from you.
Its not possible to be in someone elses position and feel what the other person feels.
But isnt it possible to just be there with the person.
Flowing down  in a journey of knowing each other do we actually put lot of limitations on each other
I donot know how to overcome this boundary of expectations
Well I guess we all can rectify others-
It only gets tougher when we need to rectify oneself.

I realised we dont possess anyone.
Thereby, our emotions should be less connected to someone elses behaviour
Tried to experiment on self
I would say not that tough - just constantly play a record in mind
"you dont possess anyone"
Smiling away all the time and saying I am good
This is a weird way to keep me going
Well all i need  is a break to reconcile my self at times
To reboot myself- refuel some new weird ideas,
To invent some more ideas that I am alone
All  alone.

I am not unhappy, I donot know what is going to happen in the long run
I would jusst survive today and face tommorow
The less I possess the less I expect the less I react
The less I hurt others
I wopuld create a distance not to safegaurd myself
But the ones whom I sometimes get into a mode of possesion,
And start expecting and not realising that I am hurting the other person involved.

Tough tuff but true this is not a question to you if you are trying to possess anyone
This is a confession that I am tired of my habbit of possession
I kill many emotions in this habbit of mine,cause I dont know where the line is.

Possesion is wow as long as it is in all earthly things
As with that we possess a lot of beautiful memories
No one - not even i can disown them , they are forever mine .
All i want to possess is good memories and not anyone or my emotions.
Emotions are just meant to be flown by and not possessed.
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