Skip to main content

Transformation

We all need that extra bit of pampering
Sometimes that from Mom with that tight hug from her -as we are a part of her
Sometimes from Father that patting- to understand we are his pride
Sometimes a huge smile from your siblings - which says I support u just do it
Sometimes a good counselling from your bestie- I know u also need a fall back and i am there
Sometimes a very understanding gesture from that someone special- which means I can count on him no matter what!!! :)

Sometimes a unknown smile from a stranger soothes all that need
A boost from a friend covers up all the need of a sibling
A power hug from a coleauge makes your day
A smile from someone you like makes a lot of difference

We all tend to run after the unattainable
Something which is not there is aways more beautiful amd object to be missed
Sometimes in the craze of that unattainable we loose the charm of the present
Many a times we forget to appreciate what we have
Most of the times we donot even see what makes the change - cause thats happening easily.

Now when i sit alone and miss all I had,
I feel a lot of affection for myself when my mom scolded me for something
I miss when my father forgot whats my section and came back asking me
I miss the moment when my kiddo sis came all the way from school and thought I was her dairy
I miss where i thought i m the best advisor to my bestie
I miss that charm in me where aI thought Love is all that special thing in life

Ya!!! indeed a more practical sort of a person i transformed into
I think its me  who should do all things right  and give no place for my mom to scold
I am responsible to let my father remember all details
I should give my sister her own free space
My besties  life is her own  and i cant govern it  let her live it her way, let me just sstand by her side
Life is more about responsibilities rather then Love and other crazineess

Maturity comes at the cost of something
That something at times can be your simplicity
I wish I could b that care free child again and let my parents handle all the crappy world
This time I would have promised to do my studies properly
This time I would make sure to enjoy each moment so much - that I will never feel the need to grow up to ME again.
I just wish I had obne more chance to relive my past
Missing is also a sweet pain with a sweet smile
These are all mine very mine that makes me happy
Going back isnot possible
May be with time some more transformations will be added to this chapter of the book called Life'

Somewhere it will not change that one simple thing the ttrue me
I am happy with your smile, when you see me
I am happy with your warm hug when I need you
I am always there when u need someone to support you
I will be the patient ear when u loose it completely.
I will be the person who will love you from the bottom of my heart but may not be showy at all
I will scold you when you are unwell, but trust me no one else will be as worried as I am
I will advice you no matter what -if you take it or not.

Request- be the one for whom i can change for some good
If I have relationship with you, remember I value it - no matter what happens let not this relationship  suffer
Cause sometimes down the line we will all miss these days
Lets make use these phase of life where we are in a constant transformation and will be

P.S- Transformation is the theme of life , dnot be so hard on urself that you dont enjoy life

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Love from Spring

The cold winter has just passed The drying leaves are flickering for the very last time The chilly winds reminds me of all my nightmares The chilled nights whisper to me the untold failures I still combat for While the fight of the cold days and chilly mornings are on The winds have done some wonders in between I didnt see them working that hard.. But the nature speaks for the wind I see colours popping I see the sky getting clear with those promising clouds The clouds sail like they were never ever been so happy before Have you seen the smile of clouds the sky wears That smile gives my chapped winter lips a little relief Did you see the mickey, the elephant, the what not imaginary in the clouds Oh it drives me crazy seeing how the sky has turned into a beautiful canvas of my imagination Just below the beautiful canvas is the colourful nature. Lustful green, flickering coloured leaves and bountiful flowers Dancing like the toddlers on winning over their first exper...
56 comments
Read more

****10 Cognitive stress Relief strategies****

Depression is very real, and what causes depression is stress, so how do we identify stress right from that mild headache to suicide everything revolves around being stressful. So how does a human react to stress in general, when he/she is stressed- handle it with "FFF"...no I don't mean the cuss word rather I meant  FIGHT//FLIGHT//FREEZE -  what's ur style to deal with it?(I will write about it on demand- let me know if you want to discover your stress combat style). Blessed are the ones who knows how to combat it. Mostly the stress that we get today are more cognitive and less physical in nature so here are the ways to deal with it 1. Meditation -  finds its traits from old Hindu or Buddhist beliefs. Scientifically the Prefrontal cortex of the brain becomes highly active and helps in stress reduction. One myth about meditation is that u have to stop thinking everything while meditating. Instead, initially  while meditating your  brain ...
33 comments
Read more

seasons of love

The late spring is here. It rained heavily this spring- it was windy . The carefree barren land got drenched and danced away merrily. Little did she care about the indifferent season this year! The wind spread beautiful smell and unknown notion all around the land. Not all could survive the warm heat today after the abstract spring this year. The summer sets in the cute little sleepy notion of spring. Slowly opens its arms and eyelids to see the hot sun  It is so excited to see the sun it feels like jumping and eating it The moist soil holds it back , knowing the sapling is still weak- she hides it within Days of summer passes by - increasing the excitement of the lil sprout The nurturer suffers all the heat of the scorching  sun Just to keep the lil sprouty grounded and safe She bears all the tapering of the hard rain of the monsoon this year She didnot dance like a carefree dancer of spring It rained hard- there were floods- but the protector...
15 comments
Read more